| ______ | - I find it easier to withdraw from situations that involve conflict.
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| ______ | - I predict conflicts before they even happen and plan scenarios to deal with them.
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| ______ | - I want to make myself right and the other wrong in conflict situations.
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| ______ | - I feel that the relationship is more important than winning an argument.
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| ______ | - It is important for me to remain calm during the time a conflict occurs.
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| ______ | - I am the kind of person who shows emotions easily during conflict.
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| ______ | - The best way to deal with conflict is when each party gives up something.
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| ______ | - I look at confronting a conflict in a positive and productive way.
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| ______ | - I find reasons to delay dealing with conflict situations.
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| ______ | - I guard myself by going over many moves and strategies when I anticipate a conflict.
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| ______ | - When there's an argument or a disagreement I want to win it.
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| ______ | - I would prefer to make peace than engage in heated arguments.
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| ______ | - I believe that one should be rational and cool during the heat of a conflict.
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| ______ | - I am very intense when there is discord or disagreement.
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| ______ | - "You do for me and I do for you" is the best way to manage conflicts.
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| ______ | - I try to look at conflicts with others as an opportunity for understanding and growth.
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| ______ | - When there are clashes at work, I try to stay away and not get involved.
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| ______ | - I think about past, present, and future conflicts a great deal so I can be prepared.
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| ______ | - I try to overpower and intimidate the person with whom I am quarreling.
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| ______ | - I believe that harmony in a relationship is more important than being right or wrong in a conflict.
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| ______ | - I am fearful of expressing too much emotion during a quarrel.
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| ______ | - When I'm in a conflict, I have to share my feelings so I'm understood.
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| ______ | - If I can't win in a conflict, I need to compromise.
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| ______ | - I am able to meet my needs in conflict situations and also satisfy the other person's needs, too.
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| ______ | - I reach agreements as quickly as possible so that I don't really have to confront them.
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| ______ | - I seek out situations where there may be conflict to protect myself.
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| ______ | - It is more important for me to win an argument than to be accepted or liked.
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| ______ | - In confronting situations, I give in to get it over with.
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| ______ | - I put control of my feelings most important in communicating during a conflict.
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| ______ | - Getting very emotional during a conflict is a strategy I like to take.
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| ______ | - I don't believe you can really get a win-win. It's mostly a draw.
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| ______ | - I find conflicts give me an opportunity to learn more about the other person.
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